I wanted to add this for a quick reference on how shipping costs are calculated. I wish everyone was close enough so that I could deliver all of your orders personally:) Being dependent on shipping services our shipping costs are calculated by USPS. Our site does seem to under calculate for orders including more items. On average we cover 20%-50% of the shipping costs since once it reaches a certain weight your cost doesn't go up however, the actual cost to ship does.
We would love to offer free shipping however, we love more keeping our prices on all of our gifts super low and feel that it saves costs on overall orders. We hope to try and always offer monthly coupons and make things weigh out as best as possible in your favor.
Thanks so much for understanding:)